A Routine Death Scene Turned Into a Life-Changing Discovery
Everyone remembers their firsts- first job, first assignment, first time something truly unexpected happens. For me, it was one of our first unattended death scenes. A man had passed away quietly in his sleep, and no one noticed for a week. His co-workers grew concerned after he missed his second day of work, a rarity in his 12-year career, eventually calling his sister after getting no answer.
When his sister and her husband approached the house, they knew better than to go in. They called the police. It was confirmed he died of natural causes, but that didn’t ease the heartbreak, especially for their mother. No parent wants to outlive their child, no matter their age.
As I listened to the sister recall memories and pain, I realized what families need most in these moments isn’t just a technician. They need a human connection, someone to bear witness.
The cleanup itself was straightforward. What wasn’t normal was the condition of the home. Trash was layered, making every step precarious, and there wasn’t a clear spot of flooring to be seen. Later, I joked with my wife that I never once touched the floor. “What did you do, float?” she asked. I told her about the crushed milk cartons, old magazines, and mountains of debris.
The next day, the sister called again not about the death scene but about the rest of the home. She asked if I could return to help clean it all. It would be my first hoarding case.
I brought in a 40-yard dumpster and worked through the layers of his life. I kept aside anything that looked important: documents, jewelry, photos. Each evening, I gave the couple anything that might be meaningful. They had told me only to save things of “value” but that phrase means something different when you’re grieving.
One evening, they told me about their long-postponed dream of visiting Australia. They’d saved for years, saving vacation time and slowly putting money aside. Now, it was gone. They had to use the funds to pay for their brother’s funeral, which wasn’t covered by the homeowner’s insurance, at least so they thought.
A week later, while I was away, our office got a call from the sister. She had found an active life insurance policy tucked in among the papers I had set aside. It would cover all the funeral costs, help their mother with expenses, and supply the remaining funds for the trip to Australia.
They left this message: “Tell Don we are so grateful.. .not just for the cleanup, but for caring enough to pay attention. He gave us closure and a future we thought we’d lost.”
It’s a moment I’ll never forget. Because sometimes, in the debris of tragedy, you uncover something priceless.
Written by Don M. McNulty for Crime Scene Cleaners, LLC © COPYRIGHT 2025 ALL RIGHTS RESERVED